What to Do When You Miss Your Kids After Divorce

The hour after drop off is the hardest. How to keep contact small and steady, where to put the ache, what never to say to your kids, and when it is more than missing them.

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How to Stay Close to Your Kids When You Don’t Have Full Custody

You cannot out-hour an every other weekend schedule. What keeps a father close: small daily contact, access to school and medical life, and knowing what backfires.

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The Gray Rock Method for Divorced Dads

How to use gray rock with a high-conflict ex, how to write the message using the BIFF format, what happens in the first month, and when the method is the wrong tool.

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