What Not to Wear by Age: A Divorced Dad’s Style Guide
A straight-talking style guide for divorced dads: what not to wear in your 30s, 40s, and 50s, the one rule that beats every trend, and the best vlogs, blogs, and podcasts for men’s style tips.
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What to Do When You Miss Your Kids After Divorce
The hour after drop off is the hardest. How to keep contact small and steady, where to put the ache, what never to say to your kids, and when it is more than missing them.
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How to Rebuild Confidence After Divorce
Confidence comes back through evidence, not thinking. The unglamorous basics, getting competent at something new, breaking the replay loop, and what to avoid.
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I Choose Peace Over Winning
Winning an argument with your ex usually costs more than losing it. How to price a fight, what is genuinely worth it, and how peace differs from being a doormat.
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Guilt After Divorce: How to Let Go Without Letting Yourself Off
Separating what was yours from what was not, doing the accounting once, apologies that work, what to say to your kids, and when guilt needs a doctor.
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When Your Ex Moves On
Finding out your ex has someone new, why it lands even when you wanted the divorce, what you are entitled to ask, and how to keep your reaction away from the kids.
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How to Set Goals Again After Divorce (90 Days at a Time)
Ninety day goals, one each for your kids, your money and your body, turned into weekly actions with a time attached, plus what to do when you miss a week.
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Should You Get a Dog After Divorce? An Honest Answer
A dog gives a divorced man routine, company and a reason to go outside. It also costs more than people think. The honest version, and how to test it first.
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Embracing the Unknown: My First Night in the New Chapter of Life
The first night in my own apartment after divorce, what actually helps on that night, what your kids are really reading, and the silence after they go back.
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How to Break Out of a Slump After Divorce
A slump is inertia, not laziness. The first hour, the first day, the first week, the two week test, and the point where it stops being a slump and needs a doctor.
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