I Choose Peace Over Winning
Winning an argument with your ex usually costs more than losing it. How to price a fight, what is genuinely worth it, and how peace differs from being a doormat.
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First Date Fail: A Tinder Tale
A first date after fifteen years of marriage, an unexpected question over the bill, and what I would do differently before meeting anyone from an app again.
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Is That Orion’s Belt? A First Date Story
A first date after a FaceTime call, a haircut I was not expecting, an evening spent managing my own face, and what it taught me about being honest at the end.
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The First Thanksgiving After Divorce: Embracing Change and Finding Growth
The first Thanksgiving my kids spent somewhere else: how to plan the day so it does not flatten you, holding your own version, and the call that should stay short.
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Swipe Left on Love: Chronicles from the Dating Dumpster Fire
A run of dating disasters from the apps, what each one actually teaches, the three habits that prevent most of them, and how to end a bad date like an adult.
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A Haunted Date Better Known As, Ghosted
Getting ghosted after a good date, why it happens, the one message to send, why it stings more after a divorce, and how not to become the guy who does it.
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I Met the New Boyfriend: From Complex Emotions to Supportive Co-Parenting
Finding out another man will be around your kids, the only test that actually matters, what to ask, what never to say to them, and how to deal with him directly.
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Embracing the Unknown: My First Night in the New Chapter of Life
The first night in my own apartment after divorce, what actually helps on that night, what your kids are really reading, and the silence after they go back.
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Making the Decision for Divorce
The night I decided, and what I would tell a man sitting in that driveway: what to do before you say a word, how the conversation goes, and the first 72 hours.
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