Online Dating for Divorced Dads: Profile, Photos, Messages

The photos that work, a three line bio formula, how to get from messaging to a coffee, what not to say on a first date, and how to be decent about all of it.

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Swipe Left on Love: Chronicles from the Dating Dumpster Fire

A run of dating disasters from the apps, what each one actually teaches, the three habits that prevent most of them, and how to end a bad date like an adult.

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A Haunted Date Better Known As, Ghosted

Getting ghosted after a good date, why it happens, the one message to send, why it stings more after a divorce, and how not to become the guy who does it.

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I Met the New Boyfriend: From Complex Emotions to Supportive Co-Parenting

Finding out another man will be around your kids, the only test that actually matters, what to ask, what never to say to them, and how to deal with him directly.

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Embracing the Unknown: My First Night in the New Chapter of Life

The first night in my own apartment after divorce, what actually helps on that night, what your kids are really reading, and the silence after they go back.

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How to Break Out of a Slump After Divorce

A slump is inertia, not laziness. The first hour, the first day, the first week, the two week test, and the point where it stops being a slump and needs a doctor.

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Making the Decision for Divorce

The night I decided, and what I would tell a man sitting in that driveway: what to do before you say a word, how the conversation goes, and the first 72 hours.

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